Positive perseverence and appropriate retreat
Not taking a backwards step is typically seen as a positive, and in many instances I've no doubt it is, but I can't help but wonder about the difference between positive perseverence and plain stubbornness. In contrast, I can't help but wonder when "giving up" should really be considered as an appropriate retreat.
Like many things, the way we look at and interpret what we and others do significantly impacts on how we feel about it, including our motivation to do it or to avoid it. Surely good leaders and, in fact, all happy and successful people realise that there are times when we need to recognise we've made an error and that accordingly, we need to cut our losses, face our embarrassment (if necessary) and then move on (preferably in a different direction).
Having worked with many individuals and organisations over the years I can think of numerous examples of when an individual or a team could well have accepted a mistake and made a noble retreat but instead, they soldiered on in the name of "never giving in" and persevering no matter what only to do more damage to themselves and often to those around them.
By Dr. Timothy Sharp
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